At 55, R&B Icon Kenny Lattimore Breaks His Silence: “I Despise Her”

At 55, legendary R&B singer Kenny Lattimore is embracing a new chapter of transformation and self-discovery after years of living behind a polished public image.

Known for his smooth vocals and grounded persona, Kenny had long been celebrated for his seemingly perfect marriage to Judge Faith Jenkins.

Together, they appeared to embody the ideal couple—his artistry blending seamlessly with her legal brilliance. Their red carpet appearances, viral wedding moments, and glowing interviews all contributed to the illusion of a love built on mutual respect and faith.

However, as Kenny now reveals, that flawless narrative was a facade hiding a much more complicated and painful reality. For years, Kenny concealed his emotional wounds, choosing to protect the image of their marriage even as the relationship began to unravel.

He remained silent, not out of fear, but to preserve Judge Faith’s reputation and maintain the illusion of their shared happiness.

Yet, that silence came at a cost. Kenny suppressed his own needs and truth, losing his voice in the process. Now, after years of introspection, he is finally ready to share his side—not for attention, but for healing and authenticity.

The cracks in their marriage didn’t appear overnight. Kenny recalls how, in the beginning, he truly believed in their love. Judge Faith seemed to offer the stability and connection he’d always wanted.

He invested deeply in the relationship, pouring his energy into making it work and maintaining their public image. But over time, subtle changes emerged. The warmth and attentiveness he once cherished from her began to fade. Small gestures, like her genuine interest in his music or thoughtful questions about his day, slowly disappeared, replaced by a growing emotional distance.

Despite sensing something was wrong, Kenny blamed himself, convinced that love required sacrifice. He gave more of himself, hoping she would reciprocate, but the imbalance only deepened.

Conversations became one-sided, decisions were made without his input, and he felt more like a public accessory than a true partner. The most painful part was the isolation—while the world saw them as the perfect couple, Kenny felt immense pressure to keep up appearances, even as he felt himself disappearing in his own marriage.

One particularly heartbreaking memory stands out: after returning from a tour, excited to share new music inspired by their struggles, Judge Faith barely looked up from her phone, dismissing his heartfelt work with a simple, “That’s nice.”

That moment, more than any argument, made him realize how invisible he’d become in her world.

Behind the social media posts, Kenny carried a quiet sadness. Judge Faith’s focus shifted to her career, leaving less space for their partnership.

Their marriage became a performance, with Kenny losing himself in the process. Ending the marriage wasn’t dramatic—it was a slow realization that it no longer served either of them.

After their divorce, Kenny turned to therapy, journaling, and music to heal. He confronted his tendency to stay silent and prioritize peace over his own well-being, reconnecting with friends and rediscovering his voice through songwriting.

Forgiveness—of Judge Faith and himself—became key to his healing.

Today, Kenny Lattimore stands in a place of peace and authenticity, no longer defined by the image of a perfect husband. His music now reflects his growth and healing, and he uses his journey to inspire others. At 55, he has traded the burden of silence for the freedom of truth, discovering that inner peace is more valuable than applause.