For years, Tina Knowles has been surrounded by rumors and accusations about her behavior within the Knowles family and Destiny’s Child.

Many insiders and observers have labeled her as controlling, narcissistic, and even manipulative, with stories coming from ex-husbands Mathew Knowles and Richard Lawson, her daughters Beyoncé and Solange, and former Destiny’s Child members.

One of the most persistent claims is that Tina has always played favorites, openly favoring Beyoncé over Solange. This alleged favoritism has reportedly caused rifts between the sisters, especially during Beyoncé’s “Renaissance” album era, when Solange was notably absent and did not publicly support her sister’s project.

Insiders say Solange grew tired of being pushed aside and working in Beyoncé’s shadow without recognition, which only deepened family tensions.

Tina’s marital relationships have also drawn attention. After divorcing Mathew Knowles—following his infidelities and fathering children outside their marriage—Tina married actor Richard Lawson.

Their relationship ended in divorce as well, with a settlement that included a non-disparagement clause preventing either party from speaking negatively about the other or their families.\

Many speculated Tina only married Richard to get back at Mathew, and she reportedly never truly respected Richard as a husband, even keeping her ex’s last name.

Further controversy surrounds Tina’s alleged role in keeping Beyoncé and Solange away from their half-siblings, reportedly forbidding any relationship with the children Mathew fathered outside their marriage.

Some sources claim Tina also ensured the mothers of Mathew’s other children received little support, making their lives more difficult.

The accusations extend to Tina’s involvement in Destiny’s Child. Former members like Farrah Franklin and Ashley Tamar Davis have spoken out about the controlling environment.

Farrah claims her departure story was fabricated, and that Tina was the mastermind behind her exit, possibly due to Mathew’s interest in her. Farrah also revealed that members were told to tan so Beyoncé would appear lighter, and that Tina discouraged working with darker-skinned girls.

Ashley Tamar Davis’ former voice coach recalled Tina calling Ashley “too big, too dark, and ugly,” which led to her being excluded from the group.

There are also stories about Tina forcing group members like Kelly Rowland to cut her hair or change her appearance so that Beyoncé would stand out as the star. While some of these changes were in line with trends, many believe Tina’s motivation was to ensure no one outshined her daughter.

Rumors of infidelity have plagued both Tina and Mathew. Beyoncé’s former vocal coach wrote about Tina allegedly having an affair with Richard Lawson while still married to Mathew, suggesting both parents contributed to the toxic environment.

In summary, Tina Knowles is portrayed by critics as fiercely protective of Beyoncé’s career, sometimes at the expense of others, including family and group members.

While some stories remain unverified, the sheer number of similar accounts paints a picture of a woman whose methods and attitudes have left a trail of controversy and hurt feelings behind her. Her legacy, while intertwined with her daughters’ success, is also shadowed by these persistent allegations.

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